Monday, November 17, 2008

If Life Were Easy, It Wouldn't Be Hard

I recently had a birthday. I can't believe that I am going to be in my twenties for only 50 more weeks! I turned 29 on November 1st. I got up to a beautiful package from Brady. He got me a CD I have been wanting and some perfume I have been wanting. He does a good job. We also got to go pickup shopping and out to dinner while our TOTALLY AWESOME neighbors had Katie. They are so great. It was a fun day. My "girls" took me to dinner at Garcia's and I got to wear a ridiculous sombrero and they sang to me. What fun! They all gave me some fun gifts, shirts, jewelry, a Scentsy warmer, a DVD, socks, all kinds of fun!



Also, my Katie girl has two little teeth peeking out the bottom and I have been trying to get a picture of them. They are so cute! She is a little eater now and will eat anything you put in her mouth! Hallelujah! I was so hoping I wouldn't have to deal with a picky eater. My problem is going to be keeping stuff OUT of her mouth! That kid will put anything in there. I experienced last night just what can happen. She loves tags and is always chewing on the ones on her toys. Last night she was playing on the floor and Brady and I were in the kitchen. We heard her gagging and coughing so I dashed in to check on her. She had a tag clear down her throat (it was still attached to the toy!) and couldn't get it out. I grabbed it out and picked her up to pound her on the back so she could catch her breath. I guess the gagging was too much for her and she puked all over me. Carrots, people. Needless to say there is now a white t-shirt and onesie in the garbage and a nursing bra (argh!) and pj's soaking in Spray 'n Wash. Oh, what fun!!!

And, last but certainly not least, Brady's dad is not doing well. I am afraid we will probably lose him before the year is out. He is arranging with Brady and his brothers what needs to be done for their mom in the spring. When I had Katie down there on Halloween he looked at her and just cried and cried and told me and my mil Dixie how he knew he didn't have much time left with her. I have never seen him absolutely break down like that. It was all I could do to maintain my composure. It was just me and Katie and my in-laws there, and it was a very bitterweet moment for me. He is such a sweet, wonderful man and just the best father to my hubby and his siblings. Brady is the only one of the siblings who will be speaking at the funeral. It is an assignment he is taking very seriously and wants to do well at. I am so thankful to this wonderful man for raising such a wonderful husband and father for me and Katie. He is one of the least selfish people I know and Brady is the same way. I have been so blessed to know him for the short time I have. I just wish that Katie could know him. She will have to delay that for a while, but she will have that chance someday, and I am so thankful for that knowledge.

4 comments:

bryan and megan said...

I am sorry to hear about your Father in Law. He sounds like a great man.

Oakleigh loves the tags on her toys too. Actually, anything that has a tag!! It's funny, she picks something up and goes right for the tag. :)

Jennalee :) said...

So sorry to hear about Brady's dad. I haven't handled a really close loss like that yet, but I imagine it has to be really hard. You are all in our prayers. Meggan, I meant to call you on your birthday...and then I meant to at least e-mail or post something for you...and then I continued to kick myself each day for not doing any of the above. So please no that I thought of you on the big day and am really glad to hear you had a great day. In regards to coming back to Utah, 18 days away from the big move!!!!! We might be headed up to Idaho Falls area the weekend of the 12th, but I will let you know for sure. Can't wait to see that baby girl!!! :)

Meggan said...

Jenn: YAY! You have to all me. I will email you my phone number to be sure you have the right one!

H. Fam said...

Hey Meggan! I'm sorry about Brady's dad. I hope you know that we are thinking about you! In fact I meant to call you on your b-day and then got busy with the baby. Then I meant to post on your blog, and well I'm finally getting to it! I'm glad you had a good day. I love reading your blog and seeing pictures of that cute little girl!